I am 6 months pregnant this week and baby boy is as active as ever!
I’m feeling his kicks and flips on a daily basis, which has become my daily assurance that things are going “okay” in there.
To make things even more exciting, D felt the baby kick for the first time this Sunday! This happened after two weeks of me consistently shouting for him to come and feel the baby move…and the baby stopping every time he put his hand on my belly. Oops!
It was disappointing for him and frustrating for me. I swear he was moving just two seconds ago! Then I had a thought. What if the reason the baby stopped moving when D put his hand on my belly was due to me talking to D about the baby moving?
Was the sound of my voice causing our little guy to quiet down in there and listen?
It came to my attention that most of the times I had felt the baby kick strongly, I was sitting down and not speaking to anyone. Coincidence? Maybe. Or maybe not.
So this past Sunday night I decided on a plan to test out my “my baby is such a good listener he must be quieting down to listen to his mama speak” theory. While D and I were hanging out, watching The Office and playing Jenga, the baby started kicking around.
These kicks were the real deal and I could feel the pokes making their way to the surface of my belly.
Frantically, like a silent psychopath, I began waving my arms at D and making quiet snapping motions with my fingers. He must have thought I was trying to distract him from his next move in Jenga, because the man paid me no mind.
“Psst,” I whispered, “psst! Come feel, quick! The baby is kicking!”
I was nervous that even the whisper may have been too loud, as D quickly laid his hand across my stomach.
Then it happened. One big, strong kick from baby to daddy.
D’s eyes lit up in surprise and then he let out a happy laugh.
“That was a big one,” he beamed, “I’ve never felt even the smallest kick from him before, but he kicked me really hard! Oh my god!”
It was a such a great moment.
As a side note: what are the chances that baby boy’s in utero tendency to stop what he’s doing and listen to his mama will continue when he’s outside of the womb and well into his teenage years? High? Slim to none? Ahh well, I’ll enjoy this while it lasts at least!
•D feeling the baby kick!
•I got a free chocolate croissant at Starbucks for being pregnant (I could get used to that perk!)
•3 months now until we meet our baby
•I know I say this almost every week, but man my GERD is a real lowlight
•What is sleep? Insomnia has been crazy this week.